“God spoke to Cain: ‘Why this tantrum? Why the sulking? If you do well, won’t you be accepted? And if you don’t do well, sin is lying in wait for you, ready to pounce; it’s out to get you, you’ve go to master it.’” (Genesis 4:6-7, The Message)
On Sunday, September 23, I preached a sermon on conflict, and how we deal with our disagreements and differing agendas as we seek to be faithful to our Lord. The text was Philippians 4:2-3, and the context was a difficult situation in the church. Two prominent women, perhaps leaders of the congregation, were in conflict with one another about something that isn’t named, and Paul was urging the rest of the church to come alongside them and assist in bringing about their reconciliation.
After preaching the sermon, I was reminded of the biblical story of Cain and Abel, a tale of needless violence that tears a family apart. It’s the first tale of violent conflict in the scriptures, a story that draws our attention to the issues of conflict and violence. At first reading, we usually focus on the conflict itself and wonder why Cain would attack and kill his apparently innocent brother, Abel. If we probe a bit deeper, we discover that it is also about freedom of choice and its consequences.
Cain works in the fields while Abel tends sheep. Each brings to God the fruit of their work as an offering. The text says that God preferred Abel’s offering, but we are never told why. Perhaps that is because the issue is really the choice before Cain: will he decide rightly and master the sin that is ready to damage his life, or will he choose another path, one that leads to violence and death? We all know that the story ends badly as Cain chooses poorly and murders his brother. As a consequence, he finds himself in exile.
Like Cain, we often find ourselves faced with conflicts of every shape and size, and we are always faced with choices that will impact how we live our lives and who we are becoming. Conflict is a part of life, and yet we bear responsibility for how we will respond to and manage the conflict. God’s invitation is always to choose well as we pray for God’s grace in every difficult situation.
Grace and Peace,
Pastor Tom
